I'm especially intrigued by this second of three installments as I interview Matt and Dawn about house church ministry -- and even more so in light of my earlier post and the amazing quote by Reggie McNeal. If you missed part one, you can find it here.
Chris:
How has pastoring a house-church changed “how” you encourage, participate-in, and facilitate ministry?
Matt:
As for myself, I experienced a shift in my thinking. For several years, I had the experience of being a full time music director at a large IC. This involved managing an "all volunteer" music program that included a worship band, orchestra, and singers. I found myself striving for nothing less than "musical excellence," and saw these volunteers as people with musical giftings who helped to make me and my department look good.
I cared for these people as much as I could with "thank you cards", pats on the back, etc. -- like a pastor would. However, I did not know these people with any spiritual depth. I never talked about what God was doing in their lives. I only saw what I wanted to see: "People who make me and my program look good". Never did I give any thought that maybe some of these volunteers had specific callings by God which were outside of the music department or even outside of the church walls. Could it be they themselves did not recognize their true calling by God?
Some people may have had a heart for… intercessory prayer, healing, teaching or evangelism – but if I don't help them find their calling and release them, as opposed to “keep on patting them on the back for their participation in my program, never acknowledging the calling on their life -- then I’m simply holding them "hostage" and keeping them from fulfilling their true calling by God. Also, if I never took the time to know my sheep, I wouldn’t identify their true callings in the first place. Pastors, shepherds and leaders (me included) need to repent of holding their sheep hostage – failing to release them to fulfill their true calling and destiny and using them instead for other purposes.
What would happen if we shepherds said "yes" to peoples' true calling by God, and then trained the body of Christ to say "yes" to each others' callings; resulting in ALL of us working within our callings? I would envision a lot of people would find their giftings/callings are to be used outside the four walls of the church.
At "The Gathering", there is not a committee, a church board, a staff, or even a Senior Pastor to tell us how our giftings shall be used or how we should live out our calling. We use our giftings as God leads us, we live out our calling under God's direction. At this level, I am able to shepherd people one on one more effectively. In fact, we shepherd each other. One of my personal passions, is to help people identify their giftings/callings and find a way to get them on a road to fulfill their destiny; thus forwarding the kingdom of God. Some of the giftings found in "The Gathering" are the prophetic, faith, exhorters, and listening prayer. Some are called to pastor, evangelize, teach, disciple and minister to the poor. (It's kind of peculiar, but it may well be possible to see the 5 fold ministry represented in one body – c.f. Eph 4) In fact, those of us in The Gathering know what each other's giftings/callings are, thus encouraging each other to exercise those giftings when we meet as well as in the marketplace.
Since doing church differently, I have surrendered to the fact that I do not believe in some the ways I used to do ministry.