How often do you find yourself feeling uncomfortable around other believers? I'm not talking about indigestion, undersized clothing, or the size of your personal space-bubble here. The uncomfortableness to which I refer is that awkward, nervous, or unsettled feeling one has when a fellow believer you happen to be with ends up espousing beliefs and practices you consider to be -- not only NOT orthodox or scripturally viable -- but potentially damaging to the reputation of all Christ-followers. It seems that the longer I walk with Christ, the more frequent I experience this phenomenon.
I love the body of Christ, and celebrate the depth of diversity found within her ranks. I also believe in the unifying implications of praying together despite our differences (see here). Yet, as the "evangelical divide" continues to grow, I find myself increasingly unable to be supportive of certain fundamentalist beliefs and practices. The use of hell as an evangelistic "threat", the narrow-minded insistence on salvation-as-an-event, as well as the legislating of morality and the demeaning judgmentalism that often accompanies it -- these are among the beliefs and practices that make me feel increasingly uncomfortable when I'm with brothers or sisters who passionately espouse such.
Admittedly, I sometimes find myself preoccupied with feelings of "guilt-by-association" when I'm with my staunch fundamentalist brethren. Their brand of Christianity is not one I want people to think I support. They embarrass me. I am not proud of this, worry about my own duplicity, and am quick to remind myself that love "bears all things" (1 Cor.13:7). Nonetheless, I remain uncomfortable.
Have you ever struggled with this? How have you responded? Many mainliners, Roman Catholics, and Orthodox believers have long felt uncomfortable around evangelicals. This is nothing new. Maybe the pendulum is simply swinging so that now it's evangelicalism's turn. But where is all this heading?
If I can love the prostitute, the ex-con, or the adulterer, why is it so hard to love a staunch fundamentalist? What does it say about me? About them? About the state of the Church today?
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